Your Kids Are Grown—Is Your Estate Plan Keeping Up?
As your children step into adulthood, your estate plan should evolve with them. Learn what updates you may need to make.

Founder / Attorney
Michael L. RutkowskiMarch 11, 2025
Estate planning is not a one-time task—it’s an ongoing process. While creating an estate plan is a significant step toward securing your future and protecting your loved ones, failing to update it as life evolves can lead to unintended consequences. When key life events occur, your estate plan should reflect these changes to ensure your assets, healthcare wishes, and legacy are protected.
Many people assume that once they’ve drafted a will or trust, their estate plan is complete. However, outdated documents can create unnecessary complications for your heirs, cause assets to be distributed in ways you didn’t intend, and even lead to legal battles.
A regularly reviewed estate plan ensures that your wishes remain up-to-date and legally enforceable.
Here are the major life events that signal it’s time to update your estate plan:
If you’ve recently married, your spouse may not be automatically included in your estate plan. Updating your will, trusts, and beneficiary designations ensures they are protected.
After a divorce, failing to remove an ex-spouse as a beneficiary could lead to unintended inheritance disputes.
Update your power of attorney and healthcare directive to reflect who will make medical and financial decisions on your behalf.
If you’ve welcomed a new child or grandchild, updating your estate plan ensures they are accounted for as beneficiaries.
Naming a legal guardian in your will is essential to protect minor children if something happens to you.
Consider establishing a trust to manage their inheritance until they reach a responsible age.
If someone named in your estate plan (a beneficiary, executor, or trustee) passes away or cannot serve, you need to name a replacement.
Failing to update these roles could leave your estate without proper administration.
If you’ve experienced a major financial shift—such as receiving an inheritance, starting a business, or acquiring new property—your estate plan should reflect your new assets.
If you’ve experienced financial hardship, an updated estate plan can help protect assets from creditors and ensure efficient wealth transfer.
Consider tax-saving strategies such as gifting or establishing an irrevocable trust to protect and distribute assets efficiently.
State laws vary significantly when it comes to estate planning, taxation, and probate.
A will or trust created in one state may not be valid in another.
Updating your estate plan ensures it complies with your new state’s laws and tax regulations.
Federal and state laws regarding estate taxes, trusts, and probate frequently change.
An estate planning attorney can help you adjust your plan to minimize tax liabilities and take advantage of any legal benefits.
If you or a loved one is experiencing declining health, updating advance directives, healthcare power of attorney, and long-term care planning documents is critical.
Long-term care planning and Medicaid Planning can help preserve assets and ensure proper care without depleting family wealth.
If you want to add or modify charitable contributions, setting up a charitable trust or revising your estate plan can ensure your generosity is structured efficiently for tax benefits.
If you own a business, your estate plan should include a business succession plan to ensure a smooth transition in case of incapacity or death.
Updating buy-sell agreements and defining leadership roles can protect the business’s future.
Review Your Existing Plan – Gather your will, trusts, powers of attorney, and any other estate planning documents to assess necessary changes.
Identify Necessary Updates – Consider any recent life changes and ensure your estate plan reflects your current wishes, family dynamics, and financial situation.
Consult with an Estate Planning Attorney – A legal professional can help you modify your documents, ensure compliance with state laws, and implement strategies to maximize asset protection and minimize taxes.
Execute the Changes – Your updated estate plan must be signed, notarized, and stored in a secure yet accessible location.
Communicate with Key Individuals – Let your executor, trustee, or power of attorney know about the updates so they understand their responsibilities.
At Rutkowski Law Firm, we understand that life is full of changes, and your estate plan should keep up. Whether you’re welcoming a new family member, adjusting for financial shifts, or ensuring compliance with legal updates, we are here to guide you through every step of the process.
📞 Need to update your estate plan? Call us today at (248) 955-2842 or schedule a consultation to ensure your plan is aligned with your current needs and future goals.
Estate Planning is an essential process that will protect your assets and ensure you’re your estate is distributed according to your wishes after your death.
Many people make mistakes when creating their estate plan, which can lead to unnecessary stress, confusion, and costly legal battles for their loved ones. Below, our estate planning team put together the top 10 and most common mistakes we see in estate planning.
As your children step into adulthood, your estate plan should evolve with them. Learn what updates you may need to make.
Founder / Attorney
Your executor will be responsible for carrying out your final wishes—make sure you choose wisely.
Founder / Attorney
Life changes—your estate plan should, too. Ensure your wishes and loved ones are protected.
Founder / Attorney