Protect Your Family From Guessing Your Medical Wishes

In Short
A Living Will protects your family by spelling out the medical treatment you want, and don't want, if you're ever unable to speak for yourself, covering things like life support and resuscitation. Michigan doesn't have a standalone Living Will statute, so we build your treatment wishes directly into your patient advocate designation, for one flat fee, which makes them legally enforceable instead of just a helpful reference.
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A Living Will is a written statement of the medical treatment you want, and don't want, if you're ever unable to communicate your wishes yourself. It typically covers life support, resuscitation, and artificial nutrition or hydration, the decisions families most often disagree about during a medical crisis, precisely because no one knows for certain what their loved one would have chosen.
Michigan is one of the states without a dedicated Living Will statute. That doesn't mean your treatment wishes don't matter, it means the legal mechanism that makes them enforceable is different than in states that have one. We build your specific wishes directly into your patient advocate designation, which does have clear statutory backing in Michigan, so your preferences carry legal weight instead of sitting as an informal reference document.
These two documents answer different questions, and confusing them leaves a real gap. A patient advocate designation names who decides for you. A Living Will (built into that designation, in Michigan's case) tells that person what you actually want. A name without instructions leaves your advocate guessing. Instructions without a named decision-maker leave no one with the legal authority to act on them. Both pieces have to exist together.
Some of the most painful disputes we see between siblings happen not over money, but over disagreement about what Mom or Dad would have wanted medically, with each sibling certain they know best. A written Living Will removes that uncertainty. It's not one sibling's opinion against another's, it's your own words, decided while you had full capacity to think it through calmly. If you're the adult child trying to get a parent to do this, that's the honest pitch: it protects your parent's wishes, but it also protects you and your siblings from ever having to guess, or disagree, on their behalf.
A Living Will addresses medical treatment decisions only. It doesn't cover your finances, and it doesn't determine who inherits your property. Those require a durable power of attorney and a will or trust, separate documents built alongside your healthcare wishes as part of the same overall plan.
Every adult, not just older clients. A serious accident or sudden illness can happen at any age, and the earlier these wishes are documented while you're healthy and clear-headed, the less likely your family is to face this decision without guidance during an emergency.
The specific decisions worth spelling out include whether you want CPR attempted (a DNR/DNI preference), whether you want a ventilator if breathing on your own becomes impossible, whether you want artificial nutrition and hydration if you can no longer eat, and whether you want treatment focused on comfort rather than cure once recovery is no longer realistic. Vague language like "no heroic measures" means different things to different doctors. We help you put these wishes in terms a hospital can actually act on.
What you'd want at 55 isn't necessarily what you'd want at 85, and a diagnosis can change your priorities overnight. We recommend revisiting these wishes whenever your health changes meaningfully, and at minimum every few years, so the document your advocate is relying on still reflects who you are today, not who you were when you first signed it.
Your Living Will and patient advocate designation cover medical decisions while you're alive but unable to communicate. Your durable power of attorney covers finances during that same period. Your will or living trust covers what happens after you die. We build all four as one coordinated Asset Shield™, so every stage of life, and every stage after it, is actually covered.
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