Essential Documents Adult Children Need When a Parent’s Health Declines
A sudden medical crisis can leave families scrambling. These key legal documents ensure you're ready to act when it matters most.

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Michael L. RutkowskiAugust 26, 2025
It’s that time of year again! Parents are busy gathering dorm essentials, renting U-Hauls, and sharing heartfelt goodbyes in parking lots. However, one crucial aspect often gets overlooked: what happens if your 18-year-old experiences an illness or injury while away at college? Legally, you might lose the ability to intervene unless you take proactive steps in advance. In this edition, we’ll provide essential information that every Michigan parent should be aware of before the big move-in day.
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When your child reaches the age of 18, they are legally recognized as an adult, which means you no longer have automatic access to their medical records.
Under HIPAA, the federal privacy law, healthcare providers cannot share health information with you without your written consent. Even if you are still covering their expenses, you cannot simply call to request updates. This is why it’s essential to plan ahead.
A Medical Power of Attorney (MPOA) empowers your child to designate someone, typically a parent, to make medical decisions on their behalf if they are unable to do so.
This legal authority takes effect in situations where your child may be unconscious, sedated, or otherwise incapacitated.
It’s important to note that this isn’t limited to dire circumstances; serious sports injuries, illnesses, or accidents can activate it. Our team is here to help you easily prepare this essential document before your student heads off to school.
In addition to a Medical Power of Attorney, your college-bound student should also have the following essential documents:
These documents are not about exerting control; they are fundamentally about care. They ensure that you can provide the necessary support when your child needs you the most.
Let’s clear up the confusion and create a plan that truly protects what matters most.
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